Igqityelwe ukuvuselelwa ngoFebruwari 15, 2022
48 Imithetho yamandla yincwadi edumileyo ebhalwe nguRobert Greene equka iminyaka eyi-3000+ yobulumko kunye neqhinga kunye namaqhinga malunga nempumelelo namandla. Le ncwadi iqulethe ulwazi oludluliselwe kwiinkulungwane ukusuka kwizikhanyiso ezidumileyo ezifana neSun Tzu, Machiavelli, Henry Kissinger, kunye ne-PT Barnum.
The 48 Imithetho yaMandla yincwadi “ekufuneka ube nayo” kuye nabani na onomdla ekuzuzeni, ekuqwalaseleni, okanye ekukhuseleni ngokuchasene nokuphenjelelwa ngabanye. Umbhali ucinga ngomdlalo wamandla njengomdlalo. Ngoko ungasebenzisa incwadi ukuze ufunde malunga namandla ngokubanzi. Okanye funda umxholo ngokunzulu. Okanye nangeenjongo ezimbi.
NgokukaGreen, okukhona usiba ngcono kwaye uqonda kunye nokuphatha amandla, kokukhona uya kuba ngcono njengomhlobo, isithandwa, iqabane leshishini. Uya kufunda ukwenza abanye bazive belungile kwaye oko kuya kubenza baxhomekeke kuwe kuba uya kuba ngumthombo wolonwabo olukhulu.
IMithetho engama-48 yeeNcaphulo zaMandla
“IMithetho engama-48 yaMandla” icwangciswe njengoluhlu oluneenkcukacha oluphonononga kumthetho ngamnye ngokweenkcukacha. Kule "48 imithetho yamandla" isishwankathelo, sijonga iingcaphuno ezilungileyo kakhulu kwincwadi njengoko sikuthatha kwisishwankathelo somgca ophezulu weMithetho ye-48 yaMandla ekhankanywe kwincwadi.
Umthetho 1. Ungaze Ugqwese Inkosi
Soloko usenza abo bangaphezulu kwakho kuluhlu lwamagunya ukuba bazive bengaphezulu kuwe. Vumela umntu ozama ukuba "ngu-alpha" abe nguloo mntu ukuze bangakuboni njengokhuphiswano.
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Fihla ubungakanani beetalente zakho, ukuze ungabenza bazive besongelwa okanye bengakhuselekanga. Iqhinga kukuba novelwano kunye nokungasongeli. Okukhona ubenza babonakale ngcono, kokukhona baya kuziva ulapho ukuze ubakhonze kwaye oko kuya kukunceda ufumane amandla amakhulu.
Uya kunceda abantu abangaphezulu kwakho bazive bekhuselekile kwaye bephakamile kunawe kwaye oko kuya kuthoba i-ego yabo kwaye abayi kuziva besongelwa. Unokwenza iimpazamo ezingenabungozi okanye ubuze imibuzo elula ukuze bazive bebalulekile ngokukuvumela ukuba ubonise ubuchule bakho okanye uzisombulule.
Umthetho 2. Ungaze ubeke ukuthembela kakhulu kubahlobo, Funda indlela yokusebenzisa iintshaba
Abahlobo batyekele ngakumbi ekubeni nomona yaye badla ngokukungcatsha. Ngoko kufuneka woyike ngakumbi kubahlobo bakho kuneentshaba zakho.
Amaxesha amaninzi abahlobo bakho abasabelani ngeenkolelo zabo zokwenyani kunye neenjongo ukuze ucinge ukuba ubazi ngcono abahlobo bakho kunawe. Ngokutsho kukaGreene, ukunyaniseka akufane kuqinise amaqhina ukuze abahlobo basoloko bezifihla iimvakalelo zabo zokwenene omnye komnye.
Kungcono ukungaqeshwa abahlobo kuba baya kuziva benelungelo kwaye bathande ukuyekelela ngakumbi kunomntu ongamaziyo. Oko kuya kukunceda ukuba isigwebo sakho singachatshazelwa kakubi ziimvakalelo.
Umthetho 3. Zifihle iiNjongo Zakho
Hlala ufihla iinjongo zakho kwaye uzigcine zifihliwe okanye zifihliwe.
Ukuba abachasi bakho abazazi iinjongo zakho zokwenyani, kunzima kubo ukuzikhusela. Balahlekise kwaye kuya kuba semva kwexesha kubo xa beqonda izicwangciso zakho. Kuya kuba semva kwexesha kakhulu ukuba baphendule ngokufanelekileyo. Unokusebenzisa utyekelo lomntu lokuthembela kwinkangeleko kwaye uyisebenzisele inzuzo yakho.
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Ngokujingisa iseti yeenjongo zenkohliso phambi kwabachasi bakho okanye iintshaba, abayi kuyibona eyona nto uyenzayo!
Ukuba uyazifihla iinjongo zakho kwaye ubonakale unentsebenziswano, abantu baya kukubona unobuhlobo kwaye unyanisekile kwaye oko kuya kubakhokelela kwindlela engalunganga.
Kwakhona, ukuba uyadibanisa kwaye awubonakali ngathi uzama ukufumana ingqwalasela, abantu baya kubathemba abantu abaqhelekileyo kwaye bangabikho amathuba okuba bakrokre.
Umthetho 4. Soloko Utsho Ngaphantsi kunesidingo
Intetho ethi "okuncinci kuninzi" iyasebenza apha. Ukuba ungumntu onamandla, unokuchukumisa abanye ngokuthetha kancinci.
Enyanisweni okukhona uthetha, kokukhona uya kuphelela ekubeni uthethe into yobudenge. Oku kusengqiqweni, akunjalo? Kodwa uya kumangaliswa kukuba abantu abaninzi bayayilibala le nto rhoqo!
Ngenxa yokuba abantu besoloko bezama ukufumanisa oko abanye babonakala becinga ngako, ukuthula kuya kubenza bazive bengakhululekanga.
Ekugqibeleni, ngokulawula oko ukutyhilayo, unokusebenzisa amandla amakhulu. Umntu othetha naye unokuzalisa izithulo ozishiyayo, aveze ulwazi oluthe kratya malunga neenjongo kunye nobuthathaka bakhe.
Umthetho 5. Kakhulu Kuxhomekeke Kudumo-Lugcine Ngobomi Bakho
Isidima sakho sihamba phambi kwakho njengoko ilizwi lakudala lihamba. Ungasebenzisa igama lakho ukoyikisa abanye kwaye “uphumelele” kodwa ukuba igama lakho liyangcoliswa okanye libi, uba sesichengeni sokuhlaselwa.
Ukuba wenza igama lakho lomelele kwaye lingangeneki ungaqikelela uhlaselo ngaphambi kokuba lwenzeke.
Ungazinceda apha ngokufumana kunye nokuxhaphaza imingxunya kumagama eentshaba zakho kwaye uvumele igama labo loluntu libatshabalalise.
Umthetho 6. Ukuqwalaselwa kweNkundla kuzo zonke iindleko
Abantu baya kukugweba ekuqaleni nangaphezulu ngokubonakala kwakho. Ke sebenzisa olu lwazi kwaye uzenze ubonakale unomdla ngakumbi kwaye ungaqondakali kubantu abaninzi - oko kuya kukwenza ubonakale!
Elinye iqhinga kukurhangqa igama lakho ngemvakalelo kunye nehlazo. Cinga ngento eyenziwa ngabantu abadumileyo apha ukugcina igama labo kwigossip tabloids.
Udumo lwalo naluphi na uhlobo luzisa amandla kwaye kuyathandeka ukuba ingqwalasela engalunganga kwaye ide inyeliswe, kunokuba ingahoywa!
Ubuchule obusebenzayo kukudala umoya wemfihlakalo ojikeleze wena ngokugcina amakhadi akho kufutshane nesifuba sakho. Abantu badla ngokutsaleleka kwabo babonakala bentsokothile. Ukuba awumangalisi, abantu baya kuzibuza ukuba yintoni intshukumo yakho elandelayo kwaye iya kudala ulindelo kunye nomdla kuwe nakwizenzo zakho.
Umthetho 7. Fumana Abanye Bakwenzele Umsebenzi, kodwa Soloko Uthatha Ityala
Ungaze uzenzele oko imizamo yabanye inokukwenzela yona. Lo ngumgaqo ongundoqo wokuvumela abanye ukuba bakuncede kwaye uvumele ubulumko kunye nolwazi lwabo luqhubele phambili eyakho injongo.
Oku kuya kukunceda ubonakale unolwazi. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, abantu baya kukukhumbula hayi abantu abasebenza ngasemva ukuze bakuncede.
Uya kuba nemveliso encinci ngobomi bakho ukuba uzama ukwenza yonke into kwaye awuyi kude. Ngoko fumana abantu abanezakhono osweleyo kuba baya kukunceda. Ungabaqesha kwaye banokuba negalelo kwimizamo yakho. Ukwenza oku ngokufanelekileyo, isikhundla sakho kufuneka sikhuseleke kwaye uya kubangela ukutyhala okukhulu ukuba ubonakala uthatha ikhredithi ngezenzo zabanye. Endaweni yoko, wamkele igalelo labo kwaye ubenze bazive bexatyisiwe ukuze baqhubeke bekusebenzela kwaye beqhubela phambili imizamo yakho.
Umthetho 8. Yenza Abanye Abantu Beze Kuwe-Sebenzisa Isithiyelo ukuba kuyimfuneko
Kungcono ukuba umchasi wakho eze kuwe. Kuhle ukubarhwebeshela ngaphakathi uze ubahlasele. Ukuba bafuna wena, kuya kufuneka balahle izicwangciso zabo kunye nezicwangciso zabo kwinkqubo kwaye baya kusabela kuwe. Abanakukwazi ukuqhubela phambili kwaye bakhokele izinto ukuba bayasebenza.
Ukuba udlala umdlalo omde (wexesha elide), ungahlala phantsi kwaye uhlale uzolile njengoko abanye bebambeka kwimigibe obuyicwangcisele yona.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba imigibe yakho ilungile nje ngokuba nomtsalane obonwayo wesithiyelo kuloo migibe. Kuya kufuneka usebenzise isiyeyelo esilunge ngenene kwaye siya kumfamekisa umchasi wakho kubunyani beemvakalelo zabo ukuze ufumane isandla esiphezulu.
Umthetho 9. Phumelela Ngezenzo Zakho, Ungaze Ngengxoxo
Akukho nto ifana “nokuphumelela” ingxabano kuba ukuba wenza omnye umntu acaphuke, uya kuba ngumchasi onamandla kwaye ukuba awukhange umcenge ukuba atshintshe iimbono zakhe, uzuze okomzuzwana. ukwaneliseka ngokubenza banikezele.
Isicwangciso seziphumo ezininzi kukuvumela izenzo zakho zikuthethelele. Ukuba unokutshintsha iingqondo zabantu kwaye ufumane isivumelwano kunye nezenzo zakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe iimbono ezihlala zihleli.
Amagama atshiphu - njengoko ibinzana lakudala lihamba "amagama ayi-dime elinesibini" - kwaye abantu baya kuthetha nantoni na ukwenza inqaku kodwa kufuna umgudu omncinci. Jonga ukutshintsha izenzo endaweni yoko kuba oko kuya kukhokelela kutshintsho oluhlala luhleli kunye nenkxaso kunye nesivumelwano sezikhundla zakho.
Umthetho we-10. Ukosuleleka: Baphephe abangonwabanga nabangaLishwa
Iimeko zovakalelo zinokosulela kwaye zosulele abantu njengezifo. Ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi ujikeleze abantu abangonwabanga, ababi, abangenathamsanqa, okanye ngenye indlela bahlala behlelwa zizinto ezimbi, amandla abo eemvakalelo aya kukuthoba ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi phambi kwabo. Ngoko qiniseka ukuba unxulumana nabantu abonwabileyo, abaphumelelayo nabaphumelelayo.
Iindidi zabantu ezingonwabanga ngokungapheliyo zityekele ekuzijongeni njengamaxhoba kwaye azinakuze zizibone njengonobangela weshwangusha nosizi lwazo. Ukuba unxulumana kakhulu nabalusizi, uchitha ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo kwaye uchithe amandla akho anokubakho.
Umthetho 11. Funda ukugcina abantu bexhomekeke kuwe
Ukuze ube ukuzimela, kufuneka wenze abanye bakufune kwaye bakufune. Kufuneka baxhomekeke kuwe, ukuze ufumane inkululeko yakho. Ukuba ufundisa abantu abakungqongileyo indlela yokwenza yonke into, baya kufumana ukuzimela kwaye bangaphindi baxhomekeke kuwe. Xa sele unabantu abaxhomekeke kuwe, uya kuba namandla ngaphezu kwabo.
Umthetho 12. Sebenzisa ukunyaniseka okuKhethekileyo kunye nesisa ukuhlutha izixhobo kwixhoba lakho
Kwanesenzo sokunyaniseka esinye sinokunceda ekukhuseleni izenzo ezininzi zokunganyaniseki. Kwaye ukuba unesisa unokuhlutha izixhobo kwanabona bantu bangabathembiyo nabakrokrelayo. Ukuba uyakwazi ukukhulula abantu izixhobo, unokubasebenzisa ngokuthanda kwabo.
Undoqo kwimpumelelo yokukhohlisa kukuphazamisa abantu. Ngokuba nesisa, uya kubaphazamisa abantu onqwenela ukubakhohlisa ngelixa ubancoma ngothando. Baza kufana nabantwana abathobekileyo kwaye baya kuzibona izenzo zakho ngendlela eyakhayo kwaye bayala ukubona ukunganyaniseki kwakho, nokuba abanye bakukhomba.
Umthetho 13. Xa Ucela Uncedo, Zibhenele Kwiminqweno Yabanye, Ungaze Kwinceba Yabo okanye Umbulelo.
Ukuba kufuneka ucele uncedo kwabanye, qiniseka ukuba isicelo sakho siquka inzuzo kumlingane wakho. Ngaloo ndlela, xa bebonakala ngathi baya kufumana inzuzo ngokukunceda, baya kusabela ngehlombe. Khumbula nje ukuba ukubhenela kumdla wakho yeyona nto ikhuthazayo ebantwini.
Nje ukuba ufumanise ukuba abanye bafuna ntoni kwaye unokubhenela kumdla wabo, awusayi kuba nemida kwinto onokuyifeza njengoko unokufumana umkhosi wokukunceda uqhubele phambili izicwangciso zakho kwaye ufumane amandla.
Umthetho 14. Zime njengoMhlobo, Sebenza njengeNtlola
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufumana amandla phezu kweembangi zakho kukuba nolwazi malunga nabo. Ukuba bakubona ungumntu onobuhlobo unokubuza imibuzo kwaye ubazi kwaye uya kuqonda ubuthathaka kunye neenjongo zabo. Emva koko uya kukwazi ukuqonda indlela abaza kuzibona ngayo iimeko. Indlela abaya kusabela ngayo, kwaye uya kukwazi ukuqikelela izenzo zabo.
Unako kwakhona ukuxhathisa abanye abantu ukuba bafumane ukuba kuhlola kuwe. Ukuba uyayenza loo nto kwaye ubandakanya abanye, uzivulela ukuba ube sesichengeni ngokuvumela abanye bakwenzele umsebenzi wakho. Ngoko ke ekugqibeleni kungcono ukwenza ukuhlola kwakho kwaye ugcine isangqa sincinci.
Umthetho 15. Lutyumze utshaba lwakho ngokupheleleyo
Ukuba ulutyumza ngokuyinxenye utshaba lwakho, ekugqibeleni luya kuphola kwaye lubuye nempindezelo!
Unokufumana kuphela uxolo kunye nokuzola ukuba iintshaba zakho ziphelile. Ukuba ulawula ukususa zonke iinketho zomchasi wakho, abayi kuba nako ukukhetha ngaphandle kokugoba kwintando yakho. Ngokubanika nantoni na yokuthethana nabo kungekho nendawo yokuqhuba, uya kuba ubatyumza.
Umthetho 16. UkuSebenzisa ukungabikho kwentlonipho kunye nembeko
Ukuba usoloko ukho kwaye ukho kwaye uyafumaneka, abantu baya kukuthabatha lula.
Ke dala ixabiso elicingelwayo eliphezulu kunye nomoya wokunqongophala okufutshane nawe ngokukhetha ukungafumaneki kancinci. Ngamafutshane, rhoxa ngamaxesha kwaye ungafumaneki kancinci.
Umthetho 17. Gcina abanye bekwimeko yoloyiko olumisiweyo: Hlakulela umoya wokungaqiniseki.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu bazizidalwa zomkhwa. Njengabantu sijonge iindlela eziqhelekileyo zokuziphatha kwabanye ukuze sibone iipatheni.
Ukuba wenza ngokungalindelekanga, abachasi bakho baya kuphelelwa ngamandla njengoko bezama ukuqikelela nokuhlalutya iintshukumo zakho. Ngamanye amaxesha ungabetha ngaphandle kwesilumkiso.
Xa usenza into eqikelelekayo, unika abanye amandla phezu kwakho kodwa ukuba wenza ngokungalindelekanga, abanye baya kuziva bengakuqondi kwaye baya koyikiswa.
Ukuba ungumntu ophantsi, unokubhida iintshaba zakho ukuze zenze impazamo yobuchule ngokusebenzisa eli qhinga lokwenza iintshukumo ezingalindelekanga.
Umthetho 18. Musa ukwakha iinqaba ukuze uzikhusele – ukuba wedwa kuyingozi
Unokucinga ukuba kufuneka ufumane amandla kwaye emva koko wakhe inqaba yokuzikhusela kwabanye. Kodwa oku akulunganga!
Ukuba uyazahlukanisa nehlabathi kwaye iintshaba zakho uya kunqunyulwa kwabanye kunye noluntu. Kwaye oko kukwenza ube sesichengeni sokuhlaselwa kuba uya kuphulukana nonxibelelwano lwakho lwentlalo. Amandla avela kwintsebenziswano yoluntu.
Ngoko ke, kunokuba uhlale ulikheswa yaye ungabikho kwabanye, yiba sisazulu sentlalontle. Lawula okusingqongileyo ngokwalathisa imisitho yentlalo apho unokwandisa ngakumbi isangqa sakho sentlalo. Endaweni yokujikela ngaphakathi kwaye ube wedwa ekuhlaleni, jikisa ingqalelo yakho ngaphandle kwezentlalo kwaye ufune amahlakani amadala, phinda uqhagamshelane nabanye, kwaye wandise izangqa zakho zentlalo.
Umthetho 19. Yazi ukuba Usebenza Nabanina – Musa ukucaphukisa umntu ongalunganga
Lumka ungoyisi iintshaba zakho ngamandla kangangokuba zifuna nje ukuchitha iintsuku zabo beceba ukubuya kunye nawe kwaye bafune ukuziphindezela. Kuyanceda ukuphepha ukukhubekisa abantu abangalunganga. Wazi kanjani? Ngokuba nobuchule bokuvavanya ngokufanelekileyo abantu kwaye ubone indlela abaphendula ngayo kwimiba emincinci.
Kwakhona ukuba usebenza okanye usondelelana nomntu, qiniseka ukuba uyamazi ngokwenene. Ungaze uthembele kwimbonakalo yokuqala - qiniseka ukuba uyaziqonda ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye unolwazi olunzulu.
Umthetho 20. Musa ukuzibophelela nakubani na
Kufuneka uzinikele kuwe kunye nokuzimela kwakho, kunokuba uzinikele kwabanye.
Oku kukuvumela ukuba udlale abantu ngaphandle komnye kuba uya kuba bhetyebhetye ngakumbi.
Kuphephe imilo encinci kunye nencinci kunye nedrama. Vumela abanye balwe ngelixa ubukele ecaleni.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ibiliqhinga elilungileyo lokudala impixano phakathi kwamanye amaqela kuba ungafumana amandla ngokusebenza njengohamba phakathi.
Umthetho 21. Dlala iSucker ukuze ubambe iSucker-Ibonakala iDumber kuneMark yakho
Akukho mntu uthanda ukuziva usisidenge, ngoko ke iqhinga elikhulu kukwenza abachasi bakho bazive belumkile kunawe.
Ngaloo ndlela baya kucinga ukuba bakrelekrele ngakumbi kwaye abayi kuziva besongelwa nguwe kwaye bangaze bakrokre ukuba uneentshukumisa ezifihlakeleyo.
Umthetho 22. Sebenzisa iQhinga lokunikezela: Guqula ubuthathaka bube mandleni
Ukuba sele uza koyiswa, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuba unikezele. Oku kuya kukunika ixesha elingakumbi lokucwangcisa ukuziphindezela kwakho.
Kwakhona, ngokunikezela, unokubakhanyela ukwaneliseka kokukutshabalalisa kwaye ujike isenzo sakho sokuzinikela sibe yinzuzo, echasene kakhulu ne-paradoxical!
Xa unikezela, ufumana amandla aphezulu. Ungalukhohlisa utshaba lwakho ukuba lukholelwe ukuba "luphumelele" nanjengoko uceba ukuwa kwalo endleleni.
Umthetho 23. Gxininisa uMkhosi Wakho
Gcina amandla akho kwaye ugxininise kumthombo omnye wamandla.
Khangela into ethile eya kukuxhasa ixesha elide elizayo njengoko iya kukunika ulwazi olunzulu kunye namandla ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Khumbula nje ukuba amandla akhona ngendlela egxininiswe. Umzekelo, kumbutho, kukho iqela elincinane eliphethe amandla amaninzi. Kufuneka ugxininise amandla akho kwaye ube yinxalenye ye-elite yamandla.
Umthetho 24. Dlala iNkundla Egqibeleleyo
Inkundla egqibeleleyo isebenzisa amandla ngokubona. Unokufumana amandla ngokusetyenziswa kwenkohliso, umtsalane kunye nobabalo. Kukho amanyathelo ambalwa onokuthi uwathathe ukuze ube yinkundla egqibeleleyo ebandakanya ukuziqhelanisa nokungakhathali, ukongamela ngokukhohlisa, ukulungelelanisa isimbo sakho kunye nolwimi kubaphulaphuli bakho, kuphephe ukuba ngumthwali weendaba ezimbi, ukungabagxeki abaphathi bakho, ukuzijonga, ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho, kwaye ube ngumthombo wolonwabo.
Umthetho 25. Zidale kwakhona
Kunokuba wamkele indima elunikwe luluntu, zenzele esakho isazisi!
Yakha isazisi esiyalela ukuhoywa kunye nenkosi kwaye wenze umfanekiso wakho, kunokuvumela abanye ukuba bakuxelele. Ngokwenyani uyifemu yakho yobudlelwane boluntu.
Zenzele umfanekiselo wamandla, ngokungathi uzixonxa ngodongwe.
Ukufezekisa le njongo, kufuneka ube nenqanaba lokuzazi kwaye ufunde ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho. Emva koko kufuneka udale umlinganiswa okhumbulekayo. Emva kokuba uyenzile loo nto unokufunda ukudlala iindima ezininzi ukuze uziqhelanise nemeko ethile.
Umthetho 26. Gcina Izandla Zakho zicocekile
Ukufumana amandla kufuneka ugcine inkangeleko engenabala ukuze ungaze udityaniswe nazo naziphi na izinto ezimbi. Ukuba uthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi engcolileyo, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa abanye njengeebhokhwe zokufihla ukubandakanyeka kwakho. Isidima sakho sixhomekeke ngakumbi kwinto oyifihlayo ngoko ke kufuneka uhlale unebhokhwe ekrwada esandleni ukuba ufuna umntu obeke ityala ngayo nayiphi na imizobo okanye imisebenzi ethandabuzekayo.
Ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ibhokhwe ka-Azazeli, kukho “inqina lekati” – umntu okwenzela umsebenzi wakho omdaka ngelixa efihla inxaxheba yakho. Oku kusenokuthetha ukuvumela omnye umntu abe ngumthwali weentswelo ezimbi ukuze unxulumane neendaba ezilungileyo. Kwaye oko kunceda ukugcina igama lakho lihle kwaye izandla zakho zicocekile.
Umthetho 27. Yenza iCult-like Ukulandela ngokudlala kwisidingo sabantu sokukholelwa
Abantu bafuna umntu wokulandela kunye nento abakholelwa kuyo.
Ukuba unokwenza inkolo njengenkokeli yomntu kwaye ufumane iqela elikhulu labalandeli abathembekileyo, baya kukunika amandla amakhulu.
Umthetho 28. Ngena kwisenzo ngokukhalipha
Abantu bayayithanda kwaye bajonge phezulu kwinkalipho. Kodwa abo baneentloni badla ngokucaphuka.
Kuhlala kungcono ukwenza ngesibindi.
Bambalwa abantu abazalwa benesibindi nangona kunjalo lo ngumkhwa ofuna ukulima, ukuziqhelanisa kunye nomzamo.
Ukuba uneentloni, kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima ukuze utshintshe lo mkhwa uze uwuthabathel’ indawo ngenkalipho.
Umthetho 29. Cwangcisa yonke indlela ukuya esiphelweni
Abantu abaziinkokeli ezibuthathaka bahlala bengakwazi ukucinga ngezinto okanye ngolwimi lwechess, “cwangcisa izinto ezimbalwa eziya phambili.”
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlala ucwangcisa izinto kude kube sekupheleni. Kuya kufuneka ucinge ngawo onke amathuba anokuthintela ekufezekiseni injongo yakho yokugqibela. Ngesicwangciso esifanelekileyo semeko, uya kukwazi ukuziqhelanisa kwaye utshintshe kwaye ujongane nezinto ezothusayo kunye nemiqobo kunye nokuphambuka kuhambo.
Abantu abaninzi abacebi kakuhle okanye bacinge kakuhle. Ukuba ucwangcisa kwangaphambili ngale ndlela, uya kuba nesandla esiphezulu.
Ukuba nombono ngundoqo ukuze ube yinkokeli enkulu nenamandla.
Umthetho 30. Yenza ukuba izinto ozifezekisileyo zibonakale zingenamsebenzi
Ukuba wenza izinto ozifezekisileyo zibonakale zingenamsebenzi, oko kukwenza ubonakale unobuchule ngakumbi kunabanye. Yintoni enokuba nzima kwabanye, "ayinamsebenzi" kuwe - ngumbono osoloko ufuna ukuwudlulisela.
Ke ngoko zifihle umzamo omkhulu kunye namaqhinga owasebenzisileyo ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho kwaye ungabaxeleli ukuba ufike njani apho ukuze bangakwazi ukukukopa.
Unako ukugcina inzuzo yobuchule ngaphezu kwabanye ngokuthula.
Umthetho 31. Lawula iiKhetho: Fumana abanye ukuba badlale ngamakhadi ojongene nawo
Ukuba unika abachasi bakho ukhetho, baya kuziva belawula ikamva labo. Kodwa into abangayi kuyiqonda kukuba uyazisebenzisa kuba bekhetha phakathi kweenketho zomnqwazi obanike zona.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba bakhetha ntoni na, ifanele ibe yingenelo kuwe.
Cwangcisa uluhlu olumxinwa lokhetho oluluncedo kuwe kwaye emva koko ungabakhokelela kwisigqibo abacinga ukuba basenze…kodwa okuluncedo kakhulu!
Umthetho 32. Dlala kwiingcamango zabantu
Inyaniso nenyaniso zihlala zicela umngeni kwaye zimbi. Ukuba ubhenela kuloo nto, abantu banokucaphuka kwaye bazive bengathandeki.
Ngoko endaweni yokugxila kwinyani, dlala fantasy. Abantu baya kumpompoza kuwe njengoko unikezela ngenye indlela yokuphoxeka kokwenyani.
Bona apho ubunyani bubangela ukuba abantu babe neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo kwaye usebenzise ezo zihloko kunye nemixholo ukuvelisa iingcinga ezinomtsalane kwindlela abangathanda ukuba izinto zibe yiyo.
Umthetho 33. Fumanisa ubhontsi weNdoda nganye
Fumana abachasi bakho ubuthathaka kunye namanqaku entlungu.
Ngokufuthi oku kuya kuba kukungazithembi, umnqweno ofihlakeleyo, okanye imvakalelo okanye umnqweno ongalawulekiyo.
Umthetho 34. Yiba yiRoyal Ngefashoni Yakho: Yenza njengoKumkani ukuba uphathwe njengaye
Abantu baya kukuphatha ngendlela ozibonakalisa ngayo kwihlabathi.
Ke…zithwale ngokuzihlonipha, ukuzithemba, kunye nesidima.
Yenza kubonakale ngathi ubumiselwe amandla.
Khanyisa iinkolelo zakho ngaphandle ukuze nabanye bakholwe.
Umthetho 35. Inkosi yobuGcisa bexesha
Umonde luphawu kwaye udlulisela ukhetho kunye neenketho.
Ungaze ubonakale ungxamile. Abantu abangxamile baneemvakalelo okanye abanazo iinketho.
Kodwa unamandla kwaye unokhetho, ngoko unokulinda kwaye ubethe ngelixa intsimbi ishushu.
Umthetho 36. Uzijongele phantsi Izinto ongenakuzifumana: Ukungazihoyi yeyona Mpindezelo ilungileyo
Unokubonakala uphakamile ngokungabi nomdla kwizinto ezikucaphukisayo.
Ukuba ujolisa kutshaba lwakho okanye kwizinto ezingakhiyo, ziyakutheza amandla namandla.
Umthetho 37. Yenza iiSpectacles eziQhelekileyo
Ungabongeza ubukho bakho kunye namandla ngokudala ezinkulu, ingqalelo ukufumana izijekulo.
Abantu baya kumangaliswa kakhulu sisitayile ukutyhila eyona nto uphezu kwayo.
Ixabiso leempawu ezibonakalayo kukuba zidlulisela amandla achukumisayo kwaye ziya kukhunjulwa kakhulu.
Khumbula isaci sakudala esithi "umfanekiso uxabisa amagama ali-1000."
Umthetho 38. Cinga ngendlela othanda ngayo, kodwa uziphathe njengabanye
Kungcono ukuziqhelanisa nokudibanisa kunye nokufihla iimvakalelo zakho zokwenyani kunye neenjongo. Ngaloo ndlela uya kudibana njengenxalenye yesihlwele kwaye abantu abayi kukubona njengomchasi ofanelekileyo…de kube sekuhlwile!
Umthetho 39. Vuma Amanzi ukuze Ubambe iintlanzi
Ukuba uyakwazi ukuhlala uzolile ngelixa ufumana abachasi bakho ngokweemvakalelo kwaye benomsindo, unokufumana inzuzo.
Ukuba ufumanisa ubuthathaka babo, unokubusebenzisa kwaye ubalawule ngokuthanda kwabo.
Okukhona besiba neemvakalelo nomsindo, kokukhona beya kubonakala behlekisa. Kwaye uya kuphola. Uya kubonakala unamandla ngakumbi ngokuthelekisa.
Umthetho 40. Sidelela Isidlo sasemini sasimahla
Ungathembeki kwizinto ezibonakala ngathi zinikezelwe "simahla." Nantoni na enexabiso, ineendleko ezinxulumene nayo kwaye kufanelekile ukuyihlawulela.
Ukuba ufumana into simahla, unokuziva ubophelelekile kumntu okunike yona. Iimvakalelo zakho ziya kudlala.
Endaweni yoko, zihlawulele izinto kwaye uphephe ukuba nezibophelelo zeemvakalelo okanye zengqondo zokwamkela isidlo sasemini sasimahla, izipho okanye ezinye izinto.
Umthetho 41. Kuphephe Ukunyathela Kwizihlangu Zomntu Omkhulu
Ukuba ungowokuqala ngento uya kuhlala ukhunjulwa ngokwembali njenge "original" leyo.
Kuya kufuneka umisele igama lakho kunye nesazisi sakho ukuze ungalityalwa kwizithunzi zabaseki bokuqala.
Fumana indlela yokugqama kwaye ube wodwa, kwaye uzenzele obakho ubukho obungayi kulityalwa.
Umthetho 42. Betha uMalusi, kwaye iigusha Ziya Kuchithachithwa
Ukuba kukho ingxaki, khangela umthombo oyintloko. Bafumane kwaye ubakhuphe kwinkqubo, imeko, inkampani, njl. Oko kuya kumisa impembelelo yabo.
Kumaqela amaninzi, amandla agxininiswe kwiinkokeli ezimbalwa. Ke ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ngubani olawula iqela, unokuba nefuthe elikhulu ekunciphiseni amandla abo ngokukhawuleza.
Umthetho 43. Sebenza ezintliziyweni nasezingqondweni zabanye
Ukunyanzeliswa kwenza abantu babe nenzondo. Ngoko endaweni yokusebenzisa ukunyanzeliswa kungcono ukuhenda abanye ukuze benze ngendlela ofuna ngayo ngaphandle kokuba ubabuze.
Ngokuqonda isayikholoji yabo kunye nobuthathaka babo, unokudlala ngeemvakalelo zabo kwaye woyise iintliziyo neengqondo zabo ukuze banyaniseke kuwe.
Kancinci kancinci thambisa abantu (cinga ngokuthambisa ibhotolo) kwaye ke baya kubumba kwintando yakho ngokuhamba kwexesha ngaphandle kokuqaphela.
Umthetho 44. Susa izixhobo kwaye ucaphukise ngesiphumo sesipili
Ukuba uyakwazi ukubukisa abachasi bakho kwaye wenze le nto bayenzayo, unokubathoba kwaye ubangele ukuba basabele ngokugqithisileyo.
Ukuba ubenza bakholelwe ukuba wabelana ngexabiso labo, baya kumfanyekiswa sisipili sakho kwaye bakufumanise kunzima ukwenza iqhinga lokukucela umngeni.
Umthetho 45. Shumayela iMfuno yoTshintsho, kodwa ungaze uguquke kakhulu ngaxeshanye
Ukuba usandul’ ukufumana isikhundla solawulo kufuneka uhloniphe indlela abantu abebephila ngayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.
Ukuba utshintsha izinto ngokukhawuleza kakhulu unokwenza uvukelo kwaye udale ukuxhathisa okukhulu kwiinzame zakho zokutshintsha.
Uya kuba yinkokeli esebenzayo ngakumbi ukuba uphucula ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye uphumelele abantu kwicala lakho kwaye wenze umanyano njengoko usiya.
Umthetho 46. Ungaze ubonakale ugqibelele kakhulu
Ngoxa ukubonakala umkhulu kunabanye kuyingozi, ukubonakala ungenasiphako yaye ungenamandla kuyingozi ngakumbi. Ngokubonakalisa ubungendawo obungeyongozi, uthintela umona ukuba ungakhuli, yaye uzenza ubonakale engeneka ngakumbi. Ngokuvumela umona ukhule, unokubonakala ngeendlela ezininzi eziyingxaki eziya kuthi ekugqibeleni zizame ukuhlutha amandla akho. Yiyeke kumzila wayo ngokuzenza ubonakale unamandla kodwa ungenasiphoso.
Umthetho 47. Musa ukudlula kuPhawu obujolise kulo: Eloyisweni, Funda ukuba Ume nini na
Lo mthetho uchasene kakhulu ne-intuitive. Ukuba uqala ukuba nempumelelo, kulungile ukuba uyingcamle kodwa ulumkele ukuba ungayeki entlokweni yakho kuba ngalo mzuzu wokuziva amandla kunye neemvakalelo ezinamandla, uya kuba buthathaka kwaye ube sesichengeni.
Lumka ukuze ungazithembi kakhulu.
Umthetho 48. Kucingela ukuba ungabinasimo
Ukuba uyaguquguquka kwaye uthambile awunasimo nto leyo ikwenza ungabi sesichengeni sokuhlaselwa.
Yonke into iyatshintsha ngalo lonke ixesha, ngoko ke yamkele le ngcamango yokuguquguquka kwaye wamkele ukuba inyaniso ihlala iguquka.