Idasinthidwa Komaliza pa February 15, 2022
48 Malamulo amphamvu ndi buku lodziwika bwino lolembedwa ndi Robert Greene lomwe limaphatikiza zaka 3000+ zanzeru ndi malingaliro ndi machenjerero okhudza kupambana ndi mphamvu. Bukuli lili ndi chidziwitso chomwe chadutsa zaka mazana ambiri kuchokera kwa zowunikira zodziwika bwino monga Sun Tzu, Machiavelli, Henry Kissinger, ndi PT Barnum.
The 48 Malamulo a Mphamvu ndi bukhu loyenera kukhala nalo kwa aliyense amene akufuna kupindula, kuyang'ana, kapena kuteteza kuti asatengedwe ndi ena. Wolembayo akuganiza za masewero amphamvu ngati masewera. Kotero mutha kugwiritsa ntchito bukhuli kuti mudziwe za mphamvu zambiri. Kapena phunzirani mutuwo mozama. Kapena ngakhale zolinga zoipa.
Malinga ndi Green, mukakhala bwino ndikumvetsetsa ndikuwongolera mphamvu, mudzakhala bwino ngati bwenzi, wokonda, wochita nawo bizinesi. Mudzaphunzira kusangalatsa ena ndipo izi zidzawapangitsa kudalira inu chifukwa mudzakhala gwero lachisangalalo chachikulu.
Malamulo 48 a Mawu a Mphamvu
"Malamulo 48 Amphamvu" adapangidwa ngati mndandanda watsatanetsatane womwe umafotokoza mwatsatanetsatane lamulo lililonse. Muchidule cha "48 Laws of Power" ichi, tikuyang'ana mawu abwino kwambiri ochokera m'bukuli pamene tikukupititsani ku chidule chapamwamba cha Malamulo 48 Amphamvu otchulidwa m'bukuli.
Lamulo 1. Osapambana Mbuye
Nthawi zonse apangitseni omwe ali pamwamba panu kuti azidzimva kuti akuposani. Lolani munthu amene akuyesera kukhala "alpha" akhale munthu ameneyo kuti asakuwoneni ngati mpikisano.
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Bisani kuchuluka kwa maluso anu, kuti musawapangitse kukhala owopsa kapena osatetezeka. Chinyengo ndi kukhala wachifundo komanso osaopseza. Mukawapangitsa kuti awoneke bwino, amamvanso kuti mulipo kuti muwatumikire ndipo izi zidzakuthandizani kukhala ndi mphamvu zambiri.
Muthandiza anthu omwe ali pamwamba panu kudzimva kukhala otetezeka komanso okuposani ndipo izi zidzasangalatsa kudzikonda kwawo ndipo sangawopsezedwe. Mutha kupanga zolakwa zopanda vuto kapena kukhala ndi mafunso osavuta kuwafunsa kuti adzimve kukhala ofunikira pokulolani kuti muwonetse luso lanu kapena kuwathetsa.
Lamulo 2. Osakhulupirira Kwambiri Anzanu, Phunzirani Momwe Mungagwiritsire Ntchito Adani
Anzanu amakonda kukuchitirani kaduka ndipo nthawi zambiri amakusandutsani. Choncho muyenera kuopa kwambiri anzanu kuposa adani anu.
Nthawi zambiri anzanu sagawana nawo zikhulupiriro ndi zolinga zawo zenizeni kotero mutha kuganiza kuti mumadziwa anzanu kuposa inu. Malinga ndi zimene Greene ananena, kukhulupirika sikumalimbitsa ubwenzi wawo moti nthawi zambiri mabwenzi amabisa mmene amaonera anzawo.
Ndi bwino kusalemba ganyu anzanu chifukwa amaona kuti ali oyenera komanso amakonda kuchita ulesi kuposa mlendo. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti musasokoneze malingaliro anu molakwika ndi malingaliro.
Lamulo 3. Kubisa Zolinga Zanu
Nthawi zonse bisani zolinga zanu ndikuzibisa kapena kuzibisa.
Ngati adani anu sakudziwa zolinga zanu zenizeni, zimakhala zovuta kuti adziteteze. Asokeretseni ndipo nthawi yatha kwa iwo akazindikira zolinga zanu. Zidzakhala mochedwa kuti ayankhe bwino. Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito chizolowezi chamunthu chodalira mawonekedwe ndikuwongolera kuti mupindule nokha.
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Ngati mubisa zolinga zanu ndikuwoneka kuti ndinu ogwirizana, anthu amakuwonani kuti ndinu abwenzi komanso owona mtima ndipo izi zidzawatsogolera kunjira yolakwika.
Komanso, ngati muphatikizana ndipo simukuwoneka kuti mukuyesera kukopa chidwi, anthu amakhulupilira omwe amawadziwa bwino ndipo sangakhale okayikira.
Lamulo 4. Nthawizonse Nenani Zochepa Kuposa Zofunikira
Mawu oti "zochepa ndi zambiri" akugwira ntchito pano. Ngati ndinu munthu wamphamvu, mukhoza kugometsa ena mwa kunena zochepa.
M’yoyo, pandaŵi jilijose mwakulandana ni yakusawusya yakusawusya. Izi ndi zomveka, sichoncho? Koma mungadabwe kuti anthu ambiri amaiwala izi mosalekeza!
Chifukwa chakuti anthu nthawi zonse amayesa kupeza zomwe ena akuganiza, kukhala chete kumawapangitsa kukhala osamasuka.
Pomaliza, poyang'anira zomwe mukuwululira, mutha kukhala ndi mphamvu zazikulu. Munthu amene mukulankhula naye atha kudzaza mawu omwe mwasiya, ndikuwulula zambiri za zolinga ndi zofooka zawo.
Lamulo 5. Zambiri Zimatengera Mbiri - Zitetezeni Ndi Moyo Wanu
Mbiri yanu imatsogolera inu monga mwambi wakale umapita. Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mbiri yanu kuopseza ena ndi "kupambana" koma ngati mbiri yanu yaipitsidwa kapena yoyipa, mumakhala pachiwopsezo chakuukira.
Ngati mupanga mbiri yanu kukhala yolimba komanso yosatheka mutha kulosera ziwonetsero zisanachitike.
Mutha kudzithandiza pano popeza ndikugwiritsa ntchito mabowo m'mbiri ya adani anu ndikulola kuti mbiri yawo iwawononge.
Lamulo 6. Kusamaliridwa ndi Khothi pa Ndalama Zonse
Anthu adzakuweruzani poyamba komanso mwachiphamaso potengera maonekedwe anu. Chifukwa chake tengerani mwayi pachidziwitso ichi ndikudzipangitsa kuti muwoneke osangalatsa komanso odabwitsa kwa anthu ambiri - zomwe zingakupangitseni kukhala odziwika!
Njira imodzi ndikuzungulira dzina lanu ndi chidwi komanso mwamanyazi. Ganizirani zomwe anthu otchuka amachita pano kuti asunge dzina lawo m'mabuku a miseche.
Kudziwika kwamtundu uliwonse kumabweretsa mphamvu ndipo ndikwabwino kukhala ndi chidwi choyipa ngakhale kusinjidwa, kuposa kunyalanyazidwa!
Njira yothandiza ndiyo kupanga chinsinsi chozungulira nokha mwa kusunga makhadi anu pafupi ndi chifuwa chanu. Anthu amakonda kukopeka ndi anthu amene amawoneka osamvetsetseka. Ngati ndinu osadziwika bwino, anthu azikhala akudabwa kuti kusuntha kwanu kudzatani ndipo kungapangitse chidwi ndi chidwi mwa inu ndi zochita zanu.
Lamulo 7. Pezani Ena Kuti Akuchitireni Ntchitoyo, Koma Nthawizonse Tengani Mayamiko
Osadzichitira nokha zimene khama la ena angakuchitireni. Uwu ndiye mfundo yofunika kulola ena kukuthandizani ndikulola nzeru zawo ndi chidziwitso kupititsa patsogolo cholinga chanu.
Izi zikuthandizani kuti muwoneke ngati mukudziwa. Pakapita nthawi, anthu adzakukumbukirani osati anthu omwe adagwira ntchito kumbuyo kuti akuthandizeni.
Mudzakhala osapindula ndi moyo wanu ngati mutayesa kuchita zonse nokha ndipo simufika patali. Ndiye pezani anthu omwe ali ndi luso lomwe mulibe chifukwa adzakuthandizani. Mutha kuwalemba ntchito ndipo atha kukuthandizani pakuchita kwanu. Kuti muchite izi moyenera, udindo wanu uyenera kukhala wotetezeka ndipo mudzabwezanso kwambiri ngati mukuwoneka kuti mumadzitama chifukwa cha zochita za ena. M'malo mwake, vomerezani zopereka zawo ndikuwapangitsa kumva kukhala ofunika kotero kuti apitirize kukugwirirani ntchito ndi kupititsa patsogolo zoyesayesa zanu.
Lamulo 8. Pangani Anthu Ena Abwere kwa Inu - Gwiritsani Ntchito Nyambo Ngati Pakufunika
Ndi bwino kuti mdani wanu abwere kwa inu. Ndi bwino kuwakokera mkati ndi kuwaukira. Ngati akukufunani, adzayenera kusiya mapulani awo ndi njira zawo panthawiyi ndipo adzachitapo kanthu kwa inu. Sangakhale okhazikika ndikutsogolera zinthu ngati ali otakataka.
Ngati mumasewera masewera anthawi yayitali, mutha kukhala pansi ndikukhazikika pomwe enawo atsekeredwa mumisampha yomwe mwawakonzera.
Kumbukirani kuti misampha yanu ndi yabwino kwambiri ngati nyambo yomwe imawoneka mu misampha imeneyo. Muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito nyambo yomwe ili yabwino kwambiri ndipo idzachititsa khungu mdani wanu kuti asazindikire momwe akumvera kuti mupambane.
Lamulo 9. Bwererani Kudzera muzochita Zanu, Osapyola Mkangano
Palibe kwenikweni chinthu chonga “kupambana” mkangano chifukwa ngati mupangitsa munthu wina kukwiyira, amakhala wotsutsa kwambiri ndipo ngati simunawakope kuti asinthe malingaliro awo, mwangopeza kwakanthawi. kukhutitsidwa pakuwapangitsa iwo kugonja.
Njira yowonjezereka ndikulola zochita zanu zikuyankhulireni. Ngati mutha kusintha malingaliro a anthu ndikuvomerezana ndi zochita zanu, mutha kusintha malingaliro okhalitsa.
Mawu ndi otchipa - monga mawu akale amapita "mawu ndi dime khumi ndi awiri" - ndipo anthu amanena chilichonse kuti afotokoze mfundo koma zimafuna khama pang'ono. Yang'anani kusintha zochita m'malo mwake chifukwa izi zidzabweretsa kusintha kosatha ndikuthandizira ndi kuvomereza maudindo anu.
Lamulo 10. Matenda: Pewani Osakondwa ndi Osowa Mwayi
Zokhudza mtima zimatha kupatsirana komanso kupatsira anthu ngati matenda. Ngati mumathera nthawi yochuluka pafupi ndi anthu omwe ali osasangalala, opanda pake, opanda mwayi, kapena nthawi zonse zinthu zoipa zimawachitikira, mphamvu zawo zamaganizo zidzakutsitsani ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka pamaso pawo. Choncho onetsetsani kuti mumayanjana ndi anthu osangalala, otukuka komanso opambana.
Anthu osasangalala nthawi zonse amadziona ngati ozunzidwa ndipo samadziona ngati oyambitsa tsoka ndi matsoka awo. Ngati mumayanjana kwambiri ndi ovutika, mumawononga nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali ndikuwononga mphamvu zanu.
Lamulo 11. Phunzirani Kusunga Anthu Odalira Inu
Kuti inu mukhale wopanda pake, muyenera kupanga ena kufuna ndi kukusowani inu. Ayenera kudalira inu, kuti mukhale ndi ufulu wanu. Ngati muwaphunzitsa anthu ozungulira inu momwe angachitire chilichonse, adzapeza ufulu wodzilamulira osadaliranso inu. Mukakhala ndi anthu omwe amadalira inu, mudzakhala ndi mphamvu zambiri pa iwo.
Lamulo 12. Gwiritsani Ntchito Kuwona Bwino Kosankha ndi Kuwolowa manja Kuchotsera Zida Wozunzidwa Wanu
Ngakhale kuchita zinthu mwachilungamo kamodzi kokha kungathandize kubisa zinthu zambiri zachinyengo. Ndipo ngati muli wowolowa manja mutha kuchotsera zida ngakhale anthu osadalirika komanso okayikitsa. Ngati mumatha kulanda anthu zida, mutha kuwagwiritsa ntchito mwakufuna kwanu.
Chinsinsi cha chinyengo chopambana ndikudodometsa anthu. Pokhala owolowa manja, mudzasokoneza anthu omwe mukufuna kuwanyenga komanso kuwasangalatsa ndi chikondi. Adzakhala ngati ana ofatsa ndipo adzaona zochita zanu m’njira yabwino ndipo adzakana kuona kusaona mtima kwanu, ngakhale pamene ena akuuzani.
Lamulo 13. Mukamapempha Thandizo, Pemphani Zodzikonda za Ena, Osawachitira Chifundo Kapena Chiyamiko.
Ngati muyenera kufunsa ena kuti akuthandizeni, onetsetsani kuti pempho lanu likuphatikizapo phindu kwa wothandizira wanu. Mwakutero, akamaoneka kuti apindula pokuthandizani, adzalabadira mosangalala. Ingokumbukirani kuti kukopa chidwi chanu ndiye chilimbikitso chachikulu kwa anthu.
Mukazindikira zomwe ena akufuna ndikukopa chidwi chawo, simudzakhala ndi malire pazomwe mungakwaniritse chifukwa mutha kupeza gulu lankhondo lokuthandizani kupititsa patsogolo zolinga zanu ndikupeza mphamvu.
Lamulo 14. Khalani Ngati Bwenzi, Gwirani Ntchito Ngati Kazitape
Njira yabwino yopezera mphamvu pa omwe akukutsutsani ndikudziwa za iwo. Ngati akuwonani kuti ndinu munthu wochezeka mukhoza kufunsa mafunso ndi kuwadziwa ndipo mudzamvetsa zofooka ndi zolinga zawo. Mukatero mudzatha kumvetsa mmene angaonere zinthu. Momwe iwo angachitire, ndipo mudzatha kulosera zochita zawo.
Mukhozanso kugwiritsa ntchito anthu ena kuti azitha kuwazonda. Ngati muchita izi ndikuphatikiza ena, mumadziwonetsera nokha ku zofooka polola ena kuti akuchitireni ntchito yanu. Choncho pamapeto pake ndi bwino kuchita akazitape anu ndi kusunga bwalo laling'ono.
Lamulo 15. Gwirani Mdani Wanu Konse
Mukangophwanya pang'ono adani anu, pamapeto pake adzachira ndikubwezeranso!
Mutha kupeza mtendere ndi bata ngati adani anu sadzakhalakonso. Ngati mutha kuchotsa zosankha zonse za mdani wanu, ndiye kuti alibe chochita koma kugwada ndi kufuna kwanu. Powapatsa kanthu kokambilana nawo komanso opanda malo oti ayendetse, mudzakhala mutawaphwanya.
Lamulo 16. Gwiritsani Ntchito Kusowa Kuti Muonjezere Ulemu ndi Ulemu
Ngati mumapezeka nthawi zonse, mulipo komanso kupezeka, anthu amakuonani mopepuka.
Chifukwa chake pangani mtengo wodziwikiratu komanso wosowa pozungulira inu mwa kusankha kukhala ochepa. Mwachidule, chotsani nthawi ndi nthawi ndikukhala ochepa.
Lamulo 17. Sungani Ena mu Zowopsa Zoyimitsidwa: Lilitsani Mpweya Wosayembekezereka
Nthawi zambiri, anthu ndi zolengedwa chizolowezi. Monga anthu timayang'ana machitidwe odziwika bwino mwa ena kuti awone machitidwe.
Ngati muchita mosayembekezereka, adani anu adzitopetsa pamene akuyesera kulosera ndikusanthula zomwe mukuchita. Nthawi zina mukhoza kugunda popanda chenjezo.
Mukachita zodziwikiratu, mumapatsa ena mphamvu pa inu koma ngati muchita mosayembekezereka, ena amaona kuti sakukumvetsani ndipo amachita mantha.
Ngati ndinu underdog, mutha kusokoneza adani anu kuti apange cholakwika mwanzeru pogwiritsa ntchito njira iyi yopanga zinthu zosayembekezereka.
Lamulo 18. Musamange Mipanda Kuti Mudziteteze - Kudzipatula ndikoopsa
Mutha kuganiza kuti muyenera kupeza mphamvu ndikumanga linga kuti mudziteteze kwa ena. Koma izi ndi zolakwika!
Mukadzipatula kudziko lapansi komanso adani anu mudzachotsedwa kwa ena komanso gulu. Ndipo izi zimakupangitsani kukhala pachiwopsezo chowukiridwa chifukwa mudzataya mayanjano anu. Mphamvu zimachokera ku chiyanjano cha anthu.
Chotero m’malo modzilekanitsa ndi kudzipatula kwa ena, khalani pakati pa anthu. Yesetsani kuwongolera chilengedwe powongolera zochitika zamagulu komwe mungathe kukulitsa gulu lanu. M'malo motembenukira mkati ndikukhala odzipatula, tembenuzirani chidwi chanu pagulu ndikufunafuna ogwirizana nawo akale, kulumikizananso ndi ena, ndikukulitsa macheza anu.
Lamulo 19. Dziwani Amene Mukuchita Naye - Osakhumudwitsa Munthu Wolakwika
Samalani kuti musagonjetse adani anu mwamphamvu kotero kuti amangofuna kuwononga masiku awo akukonza chiwembu kuti abwerere ndi inu ndi kubwezera. Kupewa kukhumudwitsa anthu olakwika kumapindulitsa. Mwadziwa bwanji? Pokhala ndi luso lowunika bwino anthu ndikuwona momwe amayankhira pazinthu zazing'ono.
Komanso ngati mumagwira ntchito kapena kukhala pafupi ndi munthu wina, onetsetsani kuti mumamudziwadi. Osakhulupirira zowonekera koyamba - onetsetsani kuti mukuzimvetsetsa pakapita nthawi komanso kukhala ndi chidziwitso chakuya.
Lamulo 20. Osadzipereka kwa Aliyense
Muyenera kudzipereka kwa inu nokha ndi kudziimira kwanu, osati kwa ena.
Izi zimakupatsani mwayi wosewera anthu wina ndi mnzake chifukwa mudzakhala osinthika.
Pewani ndewu zazing'ono ndi zazing'ono ndi sewero. Lolani ena amenyane inu mukuyang'ana kumbali.
Nthawi zina, ndi njira yabwino yopangira mikangano pakati pa zipani zina chifukwa mutha kupeza mphamvu pochita zinthu ngati njira.
Lamulo 21. Sewerani Sucker Kuti Mugwire Woyamwa - Kuwoneka Wopanda Chidziwitso Kuposa Chizindikiro Chanu
Palibe amene amakonda kudzimva kuti ndi wopusa, choncho chinyengo chachikulu ndikupangitsa adani anu kukhala anzeru kuposa inu.
Mwanjira imeneyi adzaganiza kuti ndi anzeru kwambiri ndipo sangawopsyezedwe ndi inu ndipo samakayikira kuti muli ndi zolinga zinazake.
Lamulo 22. Gwiritsani Ntchito Njira Yopereka: Kusintha Kufooka Kukhala Mphamvu
Ngati mwatsala pang’ono kugonja, nthawi zina ndi bwino kugonja. Izi zidzakupatsani nthawi yambiri yokonzekera kubwezera kwanu.
Komanso, podzipereka, mutha kuwakana kukhutitsidwa kwakukuwonongani ndikusandutsa kudzipereka kwanu kukhala mwayi, womwe ndi wotsutsana kwambiri!
Mukalolera, mumapambana. Mutha kunyengerera adani anu kuti akhulupirire kuti "apambana" ngakhale mukukonzekera kugwa kwawo.
Lamulo 23. Limbikitsani Mphamvu Zanu
Sungani mphamvu zanu ndikuyang'ana pa gwero limodzi la mphamvu.
Yang'anani chinthu chenichenicho chomwe chingakulimbikitseni kwa nthawi yayitali chifukwa chidzakupatsani chidziwitso chakuya ndi mphamvu pakapita nthawi.
Ingokumbukirani kuti mphamvu ilipo mu mawonekedwe okhazikika. Mwachitsanzo, m'bungwe pali kagulu kakang'ono kamene kamakhala ndi mphamvu zambiri. Muyenera kuyang'ana mphamvu zanu ndikukhala gawo la osankhidwa amphamvu.
Chilamulo 24. Sewerani Bwalo Labwino
Mtsogoleri wabwino amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu mwanzeru. Mutha kupeza mphamvu pogwiritsa ntchito kukopa, kukongola ndi chisomo. Pali njira zingapo zomwe mungatenge kuti mukhale munthu wapabwalo wabwino zomwe zimaphatikizapo kuchita zinthu mosasamala, kukhala wosamala ndi mawu osyasyalika, kusintha kalembedwe kanu ndi chilankhulo kuti zigwirizane ndi omvera anu, kupewa kukhala otengera mbiri yoyipa, osadzudzula akuluakulu anu, kukhala odziwonera nokha, kulamulira maganizo anu, ndi kukhala gwero la chisangalalo.
Lamulo 25. Dzilengeninso Nokha
M'malo movomereza udindo umene anthu akupatsani, yesetsani kudzidziwitsa nokha!
Pangani chizindikiritso chomwe chimapangitsa chidwi ndi luso ndikupanga chithunzi chanu, m'malo molola ena kuti akulamulireni. M'malo mwake, ndinu kampani yanu yolumikizana ndi anthu.
Dzipangenso kukhala chifaniziro cha mphamvu ngati kuti ukudziumba wekha kuchokera ku dongo.
Kuti mukwaniritse cholinga ichi, muyenera kukhala ndi mulingo wodzidziwitsa nokha ndikuphunzira kuthana ndi malingaliro anu. Kenako muyenera kupanga munthu wosaiwalika. Mukatero mukhoza kuphunzira kuchita maudindo ambiri kuti mugwirizane ndi vuto linalake.
Lamulo 26. Sungani Manja Anu Oyera
Kuti mupeze mphamvu muyenera kukhala ndi mawonekedwe opanda banga kuti musamagwirizane ndi zinthu zilizonse zoyipa. Ngati mukuchita nawo zachipongwe, ndikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito ena ngati mbuzi zobisalira kuti mutenge nawo mbali. Mbiri yanu imadalira kwambiri zomwe mumabisa kotero kuti nthawi zonse mumayenera kukhala ndi mbuzi ya scapegoat ngati mukufuna munthu woimbidwa mlandu pazochitika zilizonse zokayikitsa.
Kupatula kugwiritsa ntchito mbuzi ya Azazeli, palinso “mphako ya mphaka” - munthu amene amakuchitirani ntchito zonyansa kwinaku akubisa kukhudzidwa kwanu. Izi zingatanthauze kulola munthu wina kukhala wonyamula zosoŵa zoipa kotero kuti muthe kuyanjana ndi mbiri yabwino. Ndipo izi zimathandiza kuti mbiri yanu ikhale yabwino komanso manja anu akhale oyera.
Lamulo 27. Pangani Chipembedzo-ngati Chotsatira Poseweretsa Kufunika Kwa Anthu Kukhulupirira
Anthu amafunikira wina woti amutsatire ndi choti akhulupirire.
Ngati mutha kupanga gulu lachipembedzo ngati mtsogoleri wamunthu ndikupeza gulu lalikulu la otsatira okhulupirika, adzakupatsani mphamvu zambiri.
Lamulo 28. Lowani Kuchita Molimba Mtima
Anthu amasirira ndi kuyang'ana molimbika mtima. Koma amanyazi nthawi zambiri amaipidwa.
Nthawi zonse ndi bwino kuchita zinthu molimba mtima.
Anthu ochepa amabadwa molimba mtima ngakhale choncho ichi ndi chizolowezi chomwe chimafuna kulima, kuchita ndi khama.
Ngati ndinu wamantha, muyenera kuyesetsa kuti musinthe khalidweli n’kuyamba kulimba mtima.
Lamulo 29. Konzani Njira Yonse Mpaka Mapeto
Anthu omwe ndi atsogoleri ofooka nthawi zambiri satha kuganiza bwino kapena chilankhulo cha chess, "kukonzekerani pang'ono patsogolo."
Ndikofunika kwambiri nthawi zonse kukonzekera zinthu mpaka kumapeto. Muyenera kuganizira zotheka zonse zomwe zingakulepheretseni kukwaniritsa cholinga chanu chomaliza. Ndikukonzekera koyenera, mudzatha kusintha ndikusintha ndikuthana ndi zodabwitsa ndi zopinga ndi zokhota paulendo.
Anthu ambiri sakonzekera bwino kapena kuganiza bwino. Mukakonzekeratu motere, mudzakhala opambana.
Kukhala ndi masomphenya ndikofunikira kuti mukhale mtsogoleri wamkulu komanso wamphamvu.
Lamulo 30. Pangani Zomwe Mumakwaniritsa Ziwoneke Zosavutirapo
Ngati mumapangitsa kuti zomwe mwakwaniritsa ziwoneke ngati zosavuta, zimakupangitsani kuwoneka kuti ndinu okhoza kuposa ena. Zomwe zingakhale zovuta kwa ena, "ndizopanda ntchito" kwa inu - ndizomwe mumafuna kufotokoza nthawi zonse.
Chifukwa chake bisani khama lalikulu ndi machenjerero omwe mudagwiritsa ntchito kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu ndipo musawauze momwe mwafikira kuti asakutsatireni.
Mungathe kukhala ndi mwayi woposa ena mwa kukhala chete.
Lamulo 31. Lamulirani Zosankha: Pezani Ena Kuti Azisewera Ndi Makhadi Amene Mumachita
Ngati mupatsa adani anu kusankha, adzamva kuti ali ndi mphamvu pa tsogolo lawo. Koma zomwe sangazindikire ndikuti mukuzigwiritsa ntchito chifukwa akusankha pakati pa zomwe mwawapatsa.
Ziribe kanthu zomwe angasankhe, ziyenera kupindula inu.
Khazikitsani zosankha zingapo zomwe zingakupindulitseni ndipo mutha kuwatsogolera ku chisankho chomwe akuganiza kuti adachipanga…koma chimakupindulitsani kwambiri!
Chilamulo 32. Sewerani M'zongopeka za Anthu
Zowona ndi zoona nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta komanso zonyansa. Ngati mutapempha zimenezo, anthu akhoza kukwiya ndi kukhumudwa.
Choncho m'malo moganizira zenizeni, sewerani zongopeka. Anthu adzabwera kwa inu pamene mukupereka njira ina yokhumudwitsa zenizeni.
Onani pamene zenizeni zimapangitsa anthu kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika ndikugwiritsa ntchito mitu ndi mituyo kuti apangitse zongopeka zomwe zimakopa momwe angafune kuti zinthu zizikhala.
Chilamulo 33. Dziwani Zam'manja za Munthu Aliyense
Pezani otsutsa anu kufooka ndi mfundo zowawa.
Kaŵirikaŵiri ichi chidzakhala kusatetezeka, chikhumbo chachinsinsi, kapena kutengeka maganizo kapena chikhumbo chimene sichikulamulira.
Lamulo 34. Khalani Wachifumu Mwamaonekedwe Anu Okha: Chitani Monga Mfumu Kuchitiridwa Monga Mmodzi
Anthu adzakuchitirani monga momwe mumadziwonetsera nokha ku dziko.
Chifukwa chake ... dzitengereni nokha ndi ulemu, kudzidalira, ndi ulemu.
Zipangitseni kukhala ngati munakonzedwera mphamvu.
Onetsani zikhulupiriro zanu kunja kuti ena akhulupirire.
Lamulo 35. Katswiri Wogwiritsa Ntchito Nthawi
Kuleza mtima ndi khalidwe labwino ndipo kumapereka zosankha ndi zosankha.
Sizikuwoneka kuti zikuthamanga. Anthu omwe ali pachiwopsezo amakhala okhudzidwa kapena alibe zosankha.
Koma ndinu amphamvu ndipo muli ndi zosankha, kotero mutha kudikirira ndikumenya chitsulo chikatentha.
Chilamulo 36. Kunyoza Zinthu Zomwe Simungakhale nazo: Kuzinyalanyaza Ndiko Kubwezera Kwabwino Kwambiri
Mutha kuwoneka wokwezeka mwa kusachita chidwi ndi zinthu zomwe zimakukwiyitsani.
Ngati mumayang'ana kwambiri mdani wanu kapena zinthu zomwe zili zoipa, zimachepetsa mphamvu zanu.
Lamulo 37. Pangani Zowonera Zokopa
Mutha kukulitsa kupezeka kwanu ndi mphamvu popanga zazikulu, chidwi kupeza manja.
Anthu adzadabwa kwambiri ndi kalembedwe kameneka kuti adziwe zomwe mukuchita.
Phindu la manja owoneka ndiloti limapereka mphamvu zokopa ndipo zidzakhala zosaiŵalika.
Kumbukirani mwambi wakale wakuti "chithunzi chimakhala ndi mawu 1000."
Lamulo 38. Ganizirani Monga Mukukonda, Koma Khalani Monga Ena
Ndi bwino kuyeseza kusakanikirana ndikubisa malingaliro anu enieni ndi zolinga zanu. Mukatero mudzalumikizana ngati gulu la anthu ndipo anthu sadzakuonani ngati mdani woyenera…mpaka nthawi itatha!
Chilamulo 39. Sakanizani Madzi Kuti Mugwire Nsomba
Ngati mutha kukhala odekha pamene mukupangitsa adani anu kukhala okwiya komanso okwiya, mutha kupeza mwayi.
Mukazindikira zofooka zawo, mutha kuziwongolera ndikuzilamulira mwakufuna kwanu.
Akakhala otengeka maganizo ndi okwiya kwambiri, m’pamenenso amaoneka ngati achipongwe. Ndipo mudzakhala odekha. Mudzawoneka wamphamvu kwambiri posiyanitsa.
Lamulo 40. Muzinyoza Chakudya Chamadzulo Chaulere
Khalani osakhulupirira zinthu zomwe zimawoneka ngati zaperekedwa "mwaulere." Chilichonse chomwe chili choyenera, chimakhala ndi mtengo wogwirizana nacho komanso ndi choyenera kulipira.
Ngati mutapeza chinachake kwaulere, mungamve kuti muli ndi udindo kwa munthu amene wakupatsani. Maganizo anu adzakhala pamasewera.
M'malo mwake, dzilipirireni nokha ndikupewa kukhala ndi udindo wamalingaliro kapena wamaganizidwe pakuvomera nkhomaliro zaulere, mphatso, kapena zinthu zina.
Lamulo 41. Pewani Kulowa Nsapato Za Munthu Wamkulu
Ngati muli woyamba ndi china chake mudzakumbukiridwa nthawi zonse ngati "choyambirira".
Muyenera kukhazikitsa dzina lanu ndi chizindikiritso chanu kuti musaiwale pamithunzi ya omwe adayambitsa.
Pezani njira yodziwikiratu ndikukhala wapadera, ndikupanga kupezeka kwanu komwe sikudzaiwalika.
Chilamulo 42. Menya M’busa, Ndipo Nkhosa Zibalalika
Ngati pali vuto, fufuzani gwero loyamba. Apezeni ndikuwachotsa muzochitika, zochitika, kampani, ndi zina zotero. Izi zidzathetsa chikoka chawo.
M'magulu ambiri, mphamvu zimakhala pakati pa atsogoleri ochepa. Chifukwa chake ngati mumvetsetsa omwe amawongolera gululo, mutha kukhala ndi vuto lalikulu pakuchepetsa mphamvu zawo mwachangu.
Lamulo 43. Gwirani Ntchito pa Mitima ndi Malingaliro a Ena
Kukakamiza kumapangitsa anthu kuipidwa. Choncho m’malo moumiriza ndi bwino kunyengerera ena kuti achite mmene mukufunira popanda kuwafunsa.
Pomvetsetsa psychology yawo ndi zofooka zawo, mutha kusewera ndi malingaliro awo ndikugonjetsa mitima ndi malingaliro awo kuti akhale okhulupirika kwa inu.
Pang'onopang'ono chepetsani anthu (ganizirani za kufewetsa batala) ndiyeno adzakhala akuumba ku chifuniro chanu pakapita nthawi osazindikira.
Lamulo 44. Kuchotsa Zida ndi Kukwiyitsa Ndi Galasi Mmene
Ngati mutha kuwonetsa adani anu ndikuchita zomwe akuchita, mutha kuwachititsa manyazi ndikupangitsa kuti achite mopambanitsa.
Ngati muwapangitsa kukhulupirira kuti mumagawana nawo zomwe amafunikira, adzachititsidwa khungu ndi kalilole yanu ndipo zimawavuta kupanga njira yothanirana ndi inu.
Lamulo 45. Lalikani Zofunika Kusintha, Koma Osasintha Kwambiri Nthawi Imodzi
Ngati mwalandira udindo posachedwa muyenera kulemekeza momwe anthu akhala akukhalira mpaka pano.
Ngati musintha zinthu mwachangu kwambiri mutha kuyambitsa kuwukira ndikupangitsa kukana kwakukulu pazofuna zanu zosintha.
Mudzakhala mtsogoleri wabwino ngati mupanga kusintha pang'onopang'ono ndikupambana anthu kumbali yanu ndikupanga mgwirizano pamene mukupita.
Lamulo 46. Osawonekera Kwambiri
Ngakhale kuti kuoneka woposa ena n’koopsa, koma kuoneka wopanda chilema ndiponso wopanda chofooka n’koopsa kwambiri. Mwa kusonyeza makhalidwe oipa osavulaza, mumapewa nsanje kukula, ndipo mumadzipangitsa kukhala ofikirika. Polola nsanje kukula, imatha kuwonekera m'njira zambiri zovuta zomwe pamapeto pake zingayese kukulandani mphamvu. Ilekeni m’njira zake podzipangitsa kukhala wamphamvu koma osati wopanda cholakwa.
Lamulo 47. Osapyola Chizindikiro Chomwe Munali Kuchifuna: Pakupambana, Phunzirani Nthawi Yoyimitsa
Lamuloli ndilotsutsana kwambiri. Ngati muyamba kuchita bwino, ndi bwino kuti musangalale koma samalani kuti musakufikitseni m'mutu mwanu chifukwa panthawi yomwe mukumva mphamvu ndi malingaliro amphamvu, mudzakhala ofooka komanso osatetezeka.
Samalani kuti musadzidalire mopambanitsa.
Lamulo 48. Ganizirani Zopanda Mpangidwe
Ngati ndinu osinthika komanso osinthika ndinu opanda mawonekedwe zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala pachiwopsezo chakuukira.
Chilichonse chimasintha nthawi zonse, choncho vomerezani lingaliro ili la fluidity ndikuvomereza kuti zenizeni zimasintha nthawi zonse.